SO DON'T WHINGE!

Many reactions come from my relatives after my successful of slimmed down 10-11 kg in only two or three months. Most of them asked me if I had been using drugs to lose it. Of course I hadn’t. I do only healthy diet. Some of them believe, and some don’t. To them who believe, I’ve recommended my nutrition doctor to visit. For sure I will not suggest anybody to diet without guidance.

After some time, I asked them about the progress. I was happy to hear that one of my friends had been showing meaningful progress in 1 month. Contrary to this, I rather upset with the other friend who hadn’t struggled enough to achieve what she wants. Actually she had used many drugs before, but her weight still won’t trimmed down. Moreover, she had suffered illness caused by side effects of the drugs.

Knowing she dared to take the risk of using drugs, I think she must be in a high importance of being thin. She was also rather whinging. But the fact is a far cry from my thought. When I told her to visit my doctor, she do visit but didn’t follow the doctor’s instruction. She followed it only for one or couple days, but the rest she said she couldn’t stand starving. Or.. my guess, she couldn’t stand thinking that she’s going to be suffered.

I always convinced her that the hungry feeling wouldn’t last long. That her body will need only a while to adjust with new eating pattern, just like when we were fasting. On the first day we may frequently hungry, but soon we’ll get used to it. She seemed agree at that time but still… I don’t know, maybe she expects that putting a lot of effort into losing weight will be as pleasant as eating a box of chocolate.

What I did to my friend, motivating her, absolutely can’t compare great motivation she’ll find inside herself if she's focus with what she really wants or how much this mean to her. I was able to motivate myself because I have two reasons : first, is to get healthier, and second, is in order to make easier finding fit clothes. These two wishes maybe looked simple for other people, but since these are really important to me, I have to treat them like “important” things. How do we deal with important thing? It should be on top of our priority list, and we push ourselves hard to make it works, right? I realize that I could be suffer, but every action certainly have its consequences. If I'm not ready to take the consequences, maybe I'm not really mean with what I want. So, DON’T WHINGE!